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Should I call and say I missed you at my wedding? ?

Posted in: zjnq.com Date: March 12th, 2010

  • Some of my friends didn't show. I am really surprised. Maybe I should wait for them to call.


  • This is one of those personal things. You need to do whatever it is that will give you peace of mind. If that requires calling them then by all means go for it. If they are truly your friend then they will explain themselves for their lack of support on your day. If you can let it go then let it go as in the end nothing you do will ever bring that day back and they will forever not be there with you.


  • Judging on their absence's, I really don't think that they are your "friends" at all.


  • What do you hope to accomplish by calling? Are you looking for an explanation? Will the explanation solve anything?

    I'd wait for them to call. If they are close friends, then e-mail them when you have time and ask them how they are doing. No need to mention the wedding. When they respond, the'll probably mention it.


  • maybe they didn't really want you to get married, have u thought about that?


  • if you paid for their plate and they didn't show up then I would definitely give a "friendly" little call to say sorry I missed you and by the way you owe me a hundred bucks : )


  • wow what kind of friends miss ur wedding....dont call if anything they should call and say sorry they missed it


  • If they RSVP'd that they would show, then yes. Call them. If they didn't RSVP, then leave it be.


  • Good heavens no don't call. Don't beg people to disrespect you again. They are not your friends. Did they RSVP? Can they spell RSVP?
    It sounds like you threw a very wide invitation and invited people who didn't care about you. Let it go, it's over, you're married now and I wish you every happiness.


  • I'm sorry that some of your friends didn't show to your wedding. That must have hurt!

    I wouldn't call your friends just to say, "Hey, why weren't you at my wedding or we missed you at the wedding." However if its someone you talk to more than once a year, there is nothing wrong with calling, if you do it as a normal part of life.

    But keep in mind, if you do call and they say nothing or ask nothing about your wedding, that will be opening the wounds for you all over again. If they don't say anything and you do say something, you may have an awkward silence to fill.

    There is really a no win in this situation. One thing you might be able to get away with is a quick email to them. Just wanted to know I was thinking of you and have not heard from you in a while.

    Good Luck! I hope your wedding was wonderful and you ae able to get over the hurt from your friends.







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